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Strength:
81 + 5 = 86
Dexterity:
50 + 7 = 57
Constitution:
33 + 3 = 36
Intelligence:
12 + 8 = 20

I've read that strength builds are pretty dope but miss often, even my balanced (above) misses often enough to lose battles against players my level. Is there any like formula for reaching levels after 30 because this is frusturating and I'm stumped.

It's possible you're just fighting the wrong people, lol. Try investing in some armour that increases your Str and Dex.

Train, train, train, get scarabs, train, train, get adamizers?

Have scarabs, seem to miss with them ALOT, currently training :(

train only if you have at least 30 intelligence :)