bugs

every now and then when sending a b-mail it replies to me rather than the other person. I dont know weather if that person gets the b-mail or not though

This seem unlikely, but if you have examples of this in your mailbox, it might help Ender if you tell him the thread's id.

Alls that happens is when I hit the submit button I get a new mail and a yellow N next to my reply which isn't what normally happens I can't provide anything till it happens again sorry but I'm hoping it will happen again because it's not the first time it's happened

That can happen if they mail you again before you get time to reply

Sorry, having trouble following. What do you mean by "it replies to me"?

i get my own message so i click submit and i get a message straight away from myself

Still not sure what you mean. You try to send a bmail to someone, but it ends up being a bmail to yourself? Can you give me an example thread id where this has happened?